RHP

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3 minutes!?

May 23 2014

I just heard, on the radio, that a group of boffins have got together and decided that under 3 minutes is to be considered premature ejaculation. Yes, they have said that regularity and mental heath issues should be a part of considering whether it is a problem or not. I'm willing to put my hand up and say that there have been times that I didn't make the distance but it has not been an issue. If it happens, I just move on to other pleasures and hope that the little fella wants to try again. Anybody willing to share PE stories?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Give me a couple of minutes and ill get back to it !!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some aim for a personal best! Dismount, and bow to the judges - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    12 years ago

    Well when I was 18, I was taking the girlfriend for a drive to dam about a hours drive, I was really looking foreword to having some fun with her, and I was hard the whole time, we drove down a bumpy track to get to a secluded spot...unbuttoned he top to expose her perfect breasts, feeling every heartbeat in my jeans , layed the seat down, removed her panties, and my jeans, a little bit of foreplay, and I entered her. Tight and wet , I swear I only lasted 1 and half stokes, I desperately tried to hold it back, but I couldn't. I of course apologised, and she said it didn't matter, so we went for a swim etc, and I later made up for my earlier mishap. Tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am sure three minutes with you,would be worth three hours with any other man :-) hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So you do your best work on top !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I'm still perfecting my backward inward one and a half in the kayout position 😳 I honestly don't think I can stretch that out to 3 minutes!!!!! ~ Indy, what's a girl to do⁉️⁉️

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Do I have to last that long?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That you mentioned that DG.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And I got some brownie point shortly after.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Maybe just lucky, because Tara can cum in a few minutes too, so we have had heaps of little quick roots, rather that than what we would have missed out on over the time. To be honest, unless we have plenty of foreplay it's not so easy to hold off, but after a while of being on the edge and going into that sort of trance state, the build up starts to consume the whole body so to speak and we both just feel like we are cumming but not actually cumming until we have been at it long enough to share the thoughts with "OK lets cum now" and then collapse in a euphoric state of bliss. It's not the same as a quicky, but that is only as the time does not allow for that euphoria, still cumming is cumming and feels great whether it be for a few seconds or hours. So really it's lucky that you can cum in a few minutes as lasting can be achieved as well. Best of both worlds. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ever take anything or do anything to help last the distance? Sometimes, rarely, never? I ask because there are a lot of young men who come in to try and buy all manner of things to make it bigger and to particularly last longer. Would you use something to help and if so what are you willing to do?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just the other afternoon I was in bed with a woman. Doing my best to hold on. So I'm looking at the dust on my blinds. Umm, how am I going to clean them. A big job! Lasted 5 minutes, lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    What's it called when a woman cums in under three minutes? Generally I would think the man gets a big head and inflated ego :) But it's not all about that, I can be so turned on and horny from mental stimulation that one touch could set me over the edge. And I've had men that are literally three to five stroke cumers. Some said it was the excitement and intensity of a new pussy and got better at it. To me a successful sexual encounter does not mean that you must cum together after lasting a minimum of 10 minutes, which involved penetration of males cock into females vagina. A gratifying sexual encounter is one that you both enjoy for many reasons. We are such a labeling society...*sigh* .... It saddens me. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Gees at my age I don't want it to last longer as I may never get another. No never taken anything. Wasn't much around like that when I was young. I would have to check the labels now if I did, see it didn't affect my Heart, Blood pressure, gout, etc medication.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    3 minutes is a long time, at a stroke per second that's 180 strokes and that's a lot of effort for a guy. Just kidding...... But Maddo hit it on the head for us as well as we also have lots of quickies with both able to cum together in a couple of minutes. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think it can go both ways. Both can be just as frustrating. Cums down to how's long has it been, how's the stress levels, how comfortable are you right then? There is certainly times when the train arrives early but there are also times when pole driving to the point of exhaustion just won't bring fulfilment. That why god invented hands, tongue and sex toys!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Had a lover cum on my leg while we took our shower together at first meeting - no penetration (unbeknownst to me till he confessed months later). He said the view of my naked ass was just too much to bear (or should that be "too bare") :P Lucky for him, he was able to get it back up within minutes which saved his skin. I love that he can still recover in record time :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Fuck me dead!!!! How the FUCK do you make it past 3 seconds??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Use your fingers if you want to last longer. Squeeze under the balls between anus and scrotum. Do your physiology home work and read up about your body. Same thing goes for women. Learn about the male body. No wonder masseuse ladies give good hand jobs. The have it down pat. 3 minutes is a good thing. Especially when we need to reproduce. Wank with a condom to learn how to stay hard. Practice to come again after you have ejaculated. Milk your prostate. Very powerful orgasm. Get a big boy and insert while you lie on your left side. Stroke yourself hard and then jack off. Or simply just stimulate your prostate. You can have someone do it for you. If you want to experience an amazing orgasm this is the way.You can also have it done to you. Lean over a table with your arms crossed. Have someone insert their middle finger in your anus in a pronated way. Your prostate is just inside. Take a deep breath and feel an intense feeling. It can feels like you wan to pee. But you should be able to come within minutes. Ejaculation is the best prevention for prostate cancer.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Qefenta2' Mr FunI am sure three minutes with you,would be worth three hours with any other man :-) hugs Q I haven't been able to manage three hours for years.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' ever take anything or do anything to help last the distance? Sometimes, rarely, never? I ask because there are a lot of young men who come in to try and buy all manner of things to make it bigger and to particularly last longer. Would you use something to help and if so what are you willing to do? That wilfire oil works a treat, it's all natural, though it makes things all tingly and probably has a lot to do with using it for massage, as the relaxation is the key, I think. We have used other products that just numb the senses and sure you could go for ages but no feeling it becomes more of a waste of time as it becomes an effort trying too get there, even gets boring. Our favourite would have too be CHEN, now called AROUSAL, it comes from the health food stores and is just amino acids, but they are the food that our brain uses to make dopamine and such, so it works much like Ecstasy, once the mind begins too make the good feelings it has a boost, if you don't have sex you would not realise any effects, though once that passion begins, shit it is fucking awesome. Tara use too hate the taste of it, yet she would always drink a glass, now it tastes better, that is great. It's the favourite because it works for both of us. But as Fun said it is no problem cumming early, as keeping the passion alive can and does turn into hours of intensities. Oh Funlover, Tara is tickled pink that you are saving those pennies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh never mind......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Aparently 5 minutes is average....seriously. As much as I like a hot and heavy quickie, if that is all I am ever going to get I will have to pass. I like a guy with stamina. Not the medicinal kind. Yes I have had partners who have used it when required but on a whole I am not a fan. 20 minutes is more like normal. And an hour or 2 for the extra special ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    12 years ago

    the 1 or 2 pump problem once, but that was after extended foreplay. Then i've had the problem of not being able to cum at all once or twice but that's normally when I'm worried about my performance or stressed about something else and cant get my head in the game. But normally most of the time i need 45 mins to an hour for a good encounter. that's foreplay and all. I don't know how long of that is actual penetration, but 10 - 20 mins sounds about right. I've had girls comment that its too long, but mostly they just enjoy it. Don't get me wrong its not like I'm gods gift or anything, i just like to keep things going as long as possible and it seems my willpower is up to the task.At other times when a quickie is required i just let myself go and then 3 - 5 mins sounds about right. For anyone who's not as lucky as me, don't worry about it. Just work on making the 3 minute ones really worth it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I was with a man who came whilst I was putting a condom on him, there may have been some contributry negligence on my part as to why he came so quick 😉, but I was young and mean and not understanding, I told him he had wasted both my time and his and told him to leave (actually I rolled over and called him a cab). Poor man. Now if it happens, I see it as a good reason to slow down and touch and explore. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    That's why I don't have a clock in my bedroom ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    SSRI's are good for two things. The obvious mental state, but has an awesome side effect of dampening the sensitivity to last longer. I'm glad I only took them for a short while though. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can see why ' .. good chance I would too... ( cum on your leg that is )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My kids father would beg me for 2min of my time so I could wank him .. He even timed it .. ESP with that prick in the end it became a game to me .. A 2min wank for a $40 shirt etc I got .. I found that more exciting than his missionary in till he blew crap .. Lol Oh how I so don't miss that shit sex .. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe 4.....