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10 things I hate about you

April 02 2011

sex

Seems that lately all we've done is bag the differences between the sexes, and to be honest there are far more things I love about men/boys/guys/martians lol at the end of the day than things I dislike. Gawddd I just couldnt survive without them There are so many things I love to watch a man do, little things and simple things really, but very enjoyable. What are some of the things that endear you to 'that other person' whether they be the opposite sex or same sex? watching them do some of the day to day things, or things in the bedroom, a movement, a walk, an expression, something they wear, do with their hair? . One of mine is watching a man try and put something together (like a flat pack) lol without reading the instructions, the frowns, the concentration tongue out the side of his mouth, not realising Im watching trying not to smile swearing when he realises that he has to take it apart again and read the #!*#^ instructions LOVE IT !!!! its so damn cute and frikkin sexy, what is it with men and written instructions/destructions ? . And anything to do with working outside and getting a sweat up, watching it run down the middle of his back ahhhhhhhhh I've got more but Im getting rsi. . What gives you the same feeling?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    That sexy way of looking at you........head slighty tilted....eyes half closed and eyebrows slighty raised. Or those Subconscious curteous little gestures which show he really he thinking about you. Very sexy.......to me anyhow and I hate instructions too. Me ex's favorite quote was "Read the Manual" so now I never read the manual.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Being that attraction is best when situational, and not just a blanket thing about all women, I am going to speak in generalities, while thinking of very specific people, and very specific instances...I liked to watch her brush her teeth. That might sound gross, but it never was. I would sit on the edge of the tub, and talk to her while she did it. Also, the way she would twist her hair up before getting into the tub, to keep it from getting wet. But mostly just the way she could look at me, and communicate a vast array of things with one sweet look (oh, she could communicate a vast array of things with one really fucking angry look too, don't worry, but that would be for a different forum).

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Despite the ball gag, lycra head cover and full leather hood....my partner still wants to talk!!Lucky I speak "ball gag".

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT'Despite the ball gag, lycra head cover and full leather hood....my partner still wants to talk!! Lucky I speak "ball gag". Oh Mistress T you just gave me a coucghing fit, damn flu every time I laugh i start barking too bloody funny, obviously he can't be gagged enough, the dag

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    1) The way they look at you when they think you aren't looking at them. 2) That really smooth way they can acknowledge when you're right and they're wrong without actually verbalising defeat. 3) A guy who is accomplished in the kitchen. Sexy and yum. 4) The firm hand on the small of your back 5) Watching them work in their job. Professionally sexy. 6) Seeing their pride in their accomplishments in the shed. Kinda like the male version of "look how clean the kids rooms are now I've blitzed them!" 7) The thoughtful way they recharge your vibrator without being asked. 8) As Ticklish said, the subconscious gestures that show they care. 9) The calm way they behave when they set fire to their house. 10) The way they can look at you when you stand before them naked - like they're seeing you naked for the very first time.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    but a guy who can reach out one arm to catch a ball or something and somehow make it look effortless... it's just hot.xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    PMSL Flirty, another coughing fit with the House on fire one, thats a ripper . . Nope Sarah, not dumb at all, and it looks bloody cool too

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Great forum topic and some answers I relate to as well.I love a smile that opens her whole soul to me. I love to watch her sit on the floor naked putting her makeup on in the mirror and I will never get enough of watching her walk in high heels. Oh and since these may seem un-PC I also love to watch her work, with such passion, such care and complete honesty.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Even though I am not in a formal relationship as such...there are a lot more things on the "I like you because..." side of the scale than the other, and let's face it, we usually see the things we don't like first and most clearly as they are so often things we do ourselves,|I adore hearing a giggle either when we are talking on the phone or better still in person...and if she blushes over something sill or sexy I am owned. That's a bit like letting that elusive little child inside come out to play and you know you're in safe company.|Doing the silly little things that only a few would really know about that really show you are interested...even if you aren't all that crazy about or understand some of my passions in life. A friend found a very daggy little lapel pin in an op shop that to most would mean nothing but it now has a very proud home in my "secret treasures" box of little things that are priceless.|That smile just after we kiss...I just thought of someone I know and could taste her lips and mouth. |The way our eyes focus when we are meeting...even if it's a half a block away and you pick up the pace just a little because you can't hardly wait to be close enough to touch.|At the end of the night, even after everything from intimate and passionate sex to hanging from the ceiling sex...to be able to snuggle up with my arm under her pillow and the other around her and watch as she falls into to a deep and peaceful sleep. Even better when I trace a fingertip gently over her forehead to push the hair back from her face and there is a tiny little smile as she wriggles just a little closer.|Waking up in the morning pillow hair and all and we laugh together...she scruffles my hair and tells me I need a shower but finishes the sentence with "...after we finish waking up" and pulls the covers over our head.|To be continued...there is a lot that I like way more than what I don't like about you.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    love them . Ticklish I know that look you mentioned, how cute are they. . Sidd that post was so beautiful that you melted a bit of ice off my cold heart lol. But don't you just love remembering that "look of death" that only a woman can do so well? . Mr.Pup I dont blame you , I think even Id enjoy watching Mrs.Pup put her make up on naked and walk in heels . CM yep, way more to like than dislike, why on earth are we here otherwise? So many things about the people we're attracted to and past loves , those little things that stay with us forever. . . There are lots of things about men I love but us girls are lovely creatures when we wanna be lol. Ive also had the pleasure of sharing a kiss with a couple and I have to say that going from rough n rugged whiskers to the soft lips and facial skin of another woman is such a pretty and girly feeling. . So I have to add that I love another womans skin and soft lips, and especially if she has healthy shiny hair and the way she twirls or tucks it when she is nervous or thinking naughty things

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    And that moment when she looks at you with those big puppy dog "couldn't resist you if I tried" eyes and with a little smile says... "Would you mind if my girlfriend joined us tonight...I think you will really like her". | Have you ever tried to maintain decorum and just smile with a happy little "Sure that would be fine" when what you want to do is jump up and down punching the air yelling out "Yes...yes...yes". | I guess that means I like those little surprises that some of you ladies manage to spring out of nowhere now and again too... | ...and dancing the macarena singing "Cha cha cha cha boom boom".

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' And that moment when she looks at you with those big puppy dog "couldn't resist you if I tried" eyes and with a little smile says... "Would you mind if my girlfriend joined us tonight...I think you will really like her". | Have you ever tried to maintain decorum and just smile with a happy little "Sure that would be fine" when what you want to do is jump up and down punching the air yelling out "Yes...yes...yes". | I guess that means I like those little surprises that some of you ladies manage to spring out of nowhere now and again too... | ...and dancing the macarena singing "Cha cha cha cha boom boom". and the resultant look on the man's face when you know he is trying to keep it together (but on the inside, screaming who's a lucky boy then)haha love it CM good one.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'dontgothere' Sidd that post was so beautiful that you melted a bit of ice off my cold heart lol. But don't you just love remembering that "look of death" that only a woman can do so well? Ah, DGT, that was awfully nice of you to say. I am thinking your heart is not nearly as cold as you say :) And yes, I do remember receiving a "look of death" or two...but those are things I would rather forget. I will stick with the found memories! hahah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Adore all these quirks and random delights mentioned above so warmly and effortlessly.....simply wonderful! . And is it not these very things that should come to mind when that special one falls out of favour, as we do sometimes. . And when we do fall out of favour with one another, through happenstance, and they no longer come to mind so effortlessly to balance out All that special one is, and All that special one is not. So complete they were... . Where are all the lovely things then? What were they then, what are they now? Was it all just a set of definitions, in the end...........that you can no longer seem, to able to define? . (A Ponderous Reflection)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The silly shit that comes out of a man's mouth when he's all cum drunk then again 5 minutes later when he realises all the things he said. PMSL love it

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sorry if they've already been mentioned.... The smile after a kiss. Thinking about me and letting me phone via a phone call, email or txt. Intently working on my car and not knowing i'm watching. Remembering the small stuff about me, my dislikes and likes. Knowing what I want and not having to ask me constantly. How many is that.....only 5, um ok. Snuggling up to me from behind when I'm in the kitchen cooking etc, softly kissing my neck. Their goofy-ness when they are so in love......awwww. Those puppy dog eyes. I love watching my man take a shower. The fact he can just throw on any ol' item of clothing and still look hot! The way he pleasures me. Only a man can do that!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    are you real?????such a beautiful things to say, i felt all warm and fuzzy reading this. a man with a heart and obviously knows how to use it lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    the way they carry heavy bags for you when they laugh at your jokes that arent even funny holding your hand when your out the way the seem to know instinctivly how to fix things a cuddle at the end of a long night the way they make you feel like the most beautiful/sexy/amazing woman in the world when they dance and pull you close

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Seems a pretty common one for everyone, The watching while you are absorbed in what you are doing. I especially love it if there is a "tic" that you only do at those times. . The look of pleasure/relief on your face and the feel of your body relaxing when I find that tense/sore spot in your neck/shoulders/back. . Similarly the way you melt when I press that sweet spot on the back of your knees, at the top of your hips or when I stroke your neck. . The oversensitive tingles and spasms post orgasm when the slightest touch anywhere sends those little shocks through your body. . The look of complete peacefulness when you are fast asleep. . The little things you do that say I care. . Seeing the elation and pride in having won or accomplished something that was important to you. . Though it's not nice to have to do it too often... ... Feeling protective and wrapping you up in my arms for a nice big hug when you are upset and on the verge of tears. Being able to offer that comfort and help make things better is nice. . I love watching a woman take off her makeup and I'm able to see their natural beauty (sounds sappy and like I'm trying too hard I know but it's true). . And women just smell nicer than guys (for the most part). I just love a good natural scent. . Oh, and because I DO read manuals first. Being thought of as some sort of genius when I get electronics to work or assemble something correctly first go. Maybe you're just stroking my ego with that one but I'll take it. . Cheers Rusty