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Squirting, gushing, female ejaculation, whatever you call it, it’s a RedHot topic that never seems to go out...
Rebecca Daniels | February 19 2013
Squirting – Fact or Fiction?
Squirting, gushing, female ejaculation, whatever you call it, it’s a RedHot topic that never seems to go out of fashion! Here at RedHotPie our sex doctors are constantly inundated with questions about it, not to mention the Hot Forums going crazy with chat about it: women wanting to know what it is and how to do it, men wanting to know how to make women do it, whether or not it’s real, what the mythical g-spot is, whether it’s just urine or not, and on and on! So, we’ve decided to create an article that answers all of your squirting questions, in no particular order. Whether, you’re a believer or not in squirting, you’re sure to have fun (either on your own or with a partner) trying!
Is there a difference between squirting when you orgasm and peeing?
The fluid that is released during squirting is not urine, so yes, there is a big difference. Don’t believe us? A simple taste and smell test will prove it! There has been debate raging on for years about whether squirting is just a woman completely letting go and peeing as a result. Some people will argue till the cows come home that squirting doesn’t exist. Research into female ejaculation is a relatively new field so it’s seen as debatable. We happen to think that the non-believers just haven’t experienced it!
Some very sexy-minded scientists have done research into the phenomena and discovered that the fluid released when a female squirts has a similar chemical composition to male ejaculate, minus sperm of course. The fluid that is released during female ejaculation has been found to come from the Skene’s glands, which are a part of the g-spot. What is this g-spot you’ve been hearing so much about? The g-spot is sometimes known as the female prostate, as it’s in the same position (whilst on a different wall, of course) to the male prostate and is similar in size, shape and function.
Are you able to teach yourself how to squirt?
Yes, although the jury’s still out on whether it’s better to practice on your own first or with a partner. Ladies, we’d suggest practicing on your own at first if you sometimes have difficulty relaxing and feel pressure to squirt. If you have a partner that wants to learn - or already has an idea of how to make women squirt - and that you feel completely comfortable with, even better! That means you can lie back, relax and have them do the hard work for you!
Do all women squirt?
We’re going to open up a potential can of worms with this controversial statement - all women can squirt. In saying that, it may be extremely difficult for some women: weak pelvic floor (PC) muscles and an inability to relax can make it damn near impossible for some women. However, you don’t have to envy those women that can ‘squirt on command,’ there is hope for you yet if this is something that you really want to achieve.
Do your Kegel exercises regularly to strengthen your PC muscles, as these can help you not only learn to squirt, but also to reach orgasm more easily. To identify the muscles that you need to strengthen, practice stopping urinating midstream. The muscles that you clench to stop the flow are your pelvic floor muscles. To do your Kegels, squeeze these muscles tight and clench for five seconds, then relax for five seconds. Aim to repeat this process three times a day, for around thirty repetitions each time and soon you’ll be cracking walnuts with your….Well, maybe not, but it can make a huge difference, trust us.
When it comes to an inability to relax, there is no magic cure. if you visit the bathroom beforehand, you’ll be able to let go of any fears of urinating, making your chances of squirting more likely. Remember that squirting is natural and that most men find it a turn on, knowing that you are getting incredibly turned on! Mentally focus on the sensations, rather than worrying about the mess.
What is the best way to stimulate a woman’s g-spot to make her squirt?
Just as any woman can learn how to squirt, any man can learn how to make a woman squirt, or, as mentioned previously, a woman can take matters into her owns hands and teach herself! It will take a lot of practice and the use of a certain technique, but if you’re patient, it will pay off big time! Begin by learning your way around the female g-spot, as it’s the main player in the squirting game and whilst some women can squirt via other methods of stimulation, the g-spot is key. Feel your way around and get to know this spot well!
If you are working with a partner, begin by getting blood flowing all through your body. Try to relax by getting your partner to give you a sensual all over body massage. If you are working on your own, take a soak in a tub and stroke your body all over. Once you are really relaxed and aroused, it’s time to seek out that elusive g-spot! It is better to try and find the sweet spot when you’re really turned on, as it will be more pronounced.
Lie on your back and spread your legs, firstly making sure that you are well-lubricated (naturally or otherwise). Insert one or two fingers completely inside your vagina and curl them to feel around for a spot on the front wall that has a different texture to the surrounding skin – it might feel spongy, rough and raised. Use a ‘come hither’ motion to stroke and if you’re having trouble finding it, press your other palm flat on the outside of your pubic area.
To stimulate the g-spot, start by pushing against it using either your fingers, or a toy (preferably curved and specifically designed for g-spot stimulation). You can then start to rigorously rub the area. You will probably find that you’ll need to be quite vigorous. Through constant stimulation of the spot, you’ll begin to feel like you need to pee. Just relax and continue; fight through the sensation and you’ll start to feel an intense build up before squirting. Flexing the PC muscles can help push you over the edge. Once you’ve mastered the art of squirting digitally or with toys, you can move on to trying through intercourse. Some positions that encourage squirting are doggy style, woman on top grinding against him, man on top but with her ankles up around her ears or knees to chest.
Should women who are squirters warn new partners ASAP once it looks as though the action is headed that way?
It might not be such a bad idea to give a heads up to any partners when playing if you gush more than Niagra Falls! As a courtesy we’d suggest that you do, as it will at least allow them to lay down some towels, which is especially important if you are playing where you are going to be sleeping. No one likes sleeping in the mother of all wet patches.
So that’s pretty much it. It’s simple in theory, yes, but bear in mind that it can be much more difficult in practice. Persist though and you’ll experience some of the most intense orgasms ever. It is well worth the effort. Therefore, don’t be deterred if it doesn’t happen right away. Don’t look at it as a failed experience and get frustrated, as this will just end up in repeating the pattern as next time you try you’ll be tense and anticipating failure. Look at it as a learning experience. In short, relax, explore and enjoy it for the sensations…even if you don’t squirt. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and if you really want to squirt, you’ve gotta be prepared to put in the hard work. So go forth brave sexplorer and have some wet and wild RedHot times…then be sure to share all the juicy details with us afterwards!
What's your take on squirting, have you been able to make it happen (for yourself or a partner)? Let us know below in the comments!
Comments
TeamTnS
26 Oct 2019
I reckon I can swallow ~300 ml in a session. It isn't urine, but it does have some of that aspect. The challenge for the gland theory is the volume, speed, and rapid recovery time. There doesn't seem to be anatomy for local storage. My theory is that there is a filtered pathway from the bladder. Research opportunity!
Lolitalover
07 Aug 2019
I had never even heard of this phenomenon until I did it a few weeks ago, thanks to new friend I found on this site!
imjustmetassie
16 Dec 2018
squirting mmmm my forte in less than 30 seconds and thats just being touched by my guy......gotta stop him being abe to do this to me lol actually its more drowning him than squirting lol
cpl4cpl_and
23 Sep 2018
love love love squirting
Phantom16
23 Jul 2018
A former work colleague squirted on me so much, I felt as if she was washing me with a hose. It was a massive turn on and the rewards were orgasmic. I now search for continuous squirters. 😁
littlebitofkink
21 Jun 2018
I've gone all my sexual life thinking I couldn't squirt, but I was very wrong. If your partner knows what they're doing, it's the most intense and insane orgasm ever..especially when accompanied by playing with the clitoras. Makes my legs week and my body shake 😘
imjustmetassie
16 Jun 2018
Believe me its a fact ask my guy less than 5 minutes im gone bad its orgasms galore pity abt the sheets or where ever lol
imjustmetassie
15 May 2018
squirting work
imjustmetassie
29 Apr 2018
i can squirt if the guy is worth it lol with my guy i can drown him lol
Hotwife86
28 Apr 2018
I myself, made an appointment with a female Physiotherapist that specializes in that area of incontinence shall we say as I was sure I had pee'd during sex with my husband. As I have had a baby also even though I was active with all forms of exercise during my pregnancy I was sure I had become another statistic of female incontinence basically. Hubby was adamant I hadn't, but I was a non-squirt believer! Funnily enough when I describer the sensation, and had an examination, I was informed, that there was nothing wrong with me, and that I was one of the lucky few that in my 31st year on earth I had finally inherited female ejaculation attributes. Now it's basically a "every time" occurrence, whether its a full squirt, gush, trickle, whatever... the human body is an amazing thing!
FWB_Aus
08 Nov 2017
Squirt or piss. Both fun in the bedroom as long as your both getting off on it
robhelle
20 Apr 2017
Anyone know how to stop doing it?
xojane
06 Dec 2016
Wow xx
justdo1t
26 Jul 2016
Yes its true my girl squirts often its not pee ' pee dont look milky its not a Ways milky sometimes clear sometimes she squirts shit loads other times just a little we once had sex on a park bench at st kilda thought there wasa king tide the amount of squirts she had that night wonderful thing
threesixty
18 Sep 2015
It is one of the most erotic experiences I have had the pleasure of being part of. Sadly, we are no longer playing. Take your time, get her well and truelly on the boil and hold on for the ride of your life.... The 1st time we splet together, she said that I had a snowballs chance in hell of finding her elusive G-Spot. Inserted the "Bird" finger, traced a straight line from just inside her vagina. Towards her navel, 10 seconds into it, I detected it.... The distinct feel of the soft, but firm flesh with the surface of a "Waltun Shell" She Said WTF.... How did you do that. Practice and she was amazed that it ws quick, but I also knew what to do to achieve a Squirt..... Its not a Pokemon...... Happy Hunting...
BungCpl
11 Aug 2015
Last week my wife and I took the leep and started to play with some other couples at a party and knowing that she loves a squirt, I got her going in front of a few others. Before we knew what was happening, there was a fair crowd of people watching us all get a little wetter than normal and we were loving it. What happened next was a massive surprise, two younger, good looking couples asked if they could join in as they had tried to have their partners squirt before but not had any luck, so the I happily let the blokes have a go at making my wife squirt which she did with gusto whilst I was lucky enought to do my best at making the girls squirt. I'm very pleased to say that not only did I manage to bring both girls to a squirting orgasim, but they absolutely loved it and I managed to tick a few other things off my fucket list at the same time. Thanks to those who joined us that night, we had a blast. xxx
sweet_cherry69
02 Jul 2015
i love it !! looking fwd to some more of it at party on saturday night :)
Vespa59
15 Jun 2015
i am still on the quest for the holy grail ,are there any volunteers out there willing to show me ?
ItalianVoice
16 Oct 2014
I've just seen it in movies...till now :D this month I found TWO girls that squirt...IT'S AMAZING The first one surprised me completely...and after I asked to go on, to do it again...and she did it other 4times... was absolutely one of the most exciting night of my life!
lovinlife_45
22 Sep 2014
I love to squirt, so far I have only been with one guy who has been able to get me there, it is an amazing feeling.
N4November
27 Aug 2014
I'm multi-orgasmic and a squirter. The only negative is that being spontaneous can be difficult because I have to hold myself back so as not to make a mess!! Also public sex the same applies! But the curse is a gift and as I love to say "squirter aren't fakers"!
werup4itnow
24 Aug 2014
My partner squirts nearly every time and has multiple orgasims. Its so great and she loves it . And I love it too. It makes for great and messy sex but we like that too. Its extremely sexy. Just relax and go with the flow. Best sex ever!
TigerJoy
01 Apr 2014
I love squirting, it's so much fun
norty123
24 Mar 2014
Love it to;)
Horny4you
18 Jan 2014
The bosses wife was the 1st for me and i found it amazing mmmmmm yumm
VeryClassy
17 Jan 2014
We can teach you Speedchaser. I squirt all the time and hubby has helped a number of friends achieve their first.
speedchaser
15 Jan 2014
Can some 1 teach me please
CampinMassageFun
20 Nov 2013
Mrs Ranch Loves to squirt but not with just anyone
sparkledaisy
30 Oct 2013
I can't wait to try this!!! I hope it works!!
playfulfunwa
28 Jul 2013
still trying to squirt !!!! tried the techniques ...think i got very close , certainly the wettest ive ever been ....oh well gotta get back to practicing ...................
funcouple72
19 Feb 2013
we would like to add that it is true ,we discovered it by chance 2 yrs ago and yes she can squirt at least 4 times in a row till she can take no more
cbteager
19 Feb 2013
God yes, women can most definately squirt and I have drank gallons of the stuff, definately not urine at all. Don't know if already stated here but there was a very good docco about it on SBS2 a week or two ago and tests show that it is a prostate based fluid, yes, women have prostates, two of them. It has been considered a redundant organ so no-one ever looked into it or wrote about it. They cheked for Prostate Specific Antegins in the fluid and it was there. The glands are either side of and above the vagina. They also found that by checking the urine of squirters and non squirters before sex there were no PSA's but after sex ALL women had PSA's present which indicates that ALL women squirt but the amount varies greatly. Also ultrasound tests showed that women with a thicker division between the urethra and vagina where the squirters, they are not sure if thickness determins squirting or squirting builds thickness. The docco was called G-Spotting.
LemonDance
19 Feb 2013
I was a non believer for many years... But seems at last I've found the knack of it... Doesn't always happen, but seems to be happening more & more & more often. Must be all those Kegels I've been doing paying off at last!
De0cypher
19 Feb 2013
Experienced it with the female half of a couple I met... it was indescribably one of the most arousing things I have recently experienced... she was very self conscious but I couldn't get enough of making her squirt :)
5exxytimes
19 Feb 2013
Well we were nion believes but can categorically state that squirting is very real. Blew us away the first time but its def a phenomenon and lots of fun!
totallygenuine
19 Feb 2013
Just to verify this topic YES YES YES YES it's sooooo true I discovered the art of making women gush & squirt about a year ago since then I haven't look back. Women are totally leg less and amazed.
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